TD Foundation


As noted by the title of this post, today is Giving Tuesday — the nobler offspring of Black Friday and Cyber Monday. Among the many worthy options that will reach your inbox today, I hope you’ll consider supporting the work of the TD Foundation.

I’ve been a board member with TD (named for good friend, digital pioneer and purple heart recipient Tom Deierlein) since its work began 13 years ago. Briefly, the foundation is often the safety net for the families of wounded veterans and Gold Star families – those whose husband, wife, father or mother has made the ultimate sacrifice. You would think and hope that our government would have the backs of our service members, but in practice it doesn’t always work that way.

Working as a connector and a source of funds to other veteran assistance groups, the TD Foundation will write the checks that keep a car from being repossessed; that provide needed medical equipment; that prevent a veteran’s family from slipping into homelessness; that allow a child to attend summer camp or pay the fees to compete in a sport. No red tape. Zero overhead. Just immediate help that sustains the often-fragile lives and support systems of our veterans… one check at a time.

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What can you do? One or more of three things.

Attend the TD Foundation Annual holiday gathering in New York next week. $200 buys you some great networking with scores of the best people in the New York digital ad community. Wednesday December 11th, 6-9 PM at Xandr HQ, 28 West 23rd Street. It is seriously the best night of the year. Buy that ticket now. In fact, buy two and make someone else’s night as well.

Make a direct donation to the TD Foundation. We’re a 501 (c)(3) organization, so tax exempt. Aside from a credit card transaction fee, 100 percent of what you give will go to veteran families in crisis. 100 percent.

Forward this post. Whether you’re seeing this in your inbox, on Linked In, on Facebook or somewhere else, spread the word.

There’s nothing wrong with saying Thank you for your service to a veteran. But wouldn’t it mean more to say How can I help you? This is how.

Thank you for your thoughtful generosity to TD Foundation, and for your comments and social support as well. Happy holidays.

Don’t Just Say Thanks.

Veterans Day 2018 brought familiar reminders to those of us in the general public – non-veterans – of the service of others.  Who can miss those Camo’/faux-military hats and warm up jackets on the sideline of NFL games?  And then there are the military themed TV ad campaigns and the reminders that this retail chain or this coffee company proudly hire veterans.  And all over social media and – sometimes – in person, we say Thank you for your service.

Nothing particularly wrong with any of that.  Except that quite often saying thank you is all we end up doing.  I recently saw an interview with Senator Tammy Duckworth of Illinois, former helicopter pilot who lost both legs in a crash in Iraq.  She said near the end of the segment that what veterans like her really want to hear — far more than Thank you for your service — is the simple phrase Never forget.

Never forget is more than a feel-good catch phrase. It’s a challenge. Far too many veterans do feel forgotten for much of the year.  And those who probably feel it most are our wounded warriors and their families and the kids and spouses of the men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice – Gold Star families.

As we all break for Thanksgiving, I’d like to appeal to those of you who read The Drift to not only Never forget, but to act on that value right now.  For the past 12 years I’ve been involved with The TD Foundation, a 100% volunteer group that gives 100% of the funds we collect to the families of those veterans who can least afford to be forgotten. We help make mortgage payments, have car engines rebuilt, send children to camp, buy soccer equipment. Sometimes these small acts of support are enough to keep a family from losing their home;  other times they just make a kid with a wounded or missing parent feel like – a kid.

On Thursday evening December 6th, near the World Trade Center site in New York, we’ll be hosting our annual fundraising event.  Click here to go on our website and buy your ticket.  Even if you can’t attend, go ahead and make the donation.  You can do it on the same page.

Yes, there are many people in the world and in our own country who need our help.  But I’m asking your help for a particular group of Americans that should never be forgotten but who too often are.

I thank you for your generosity and wish you and your families a blessed Thanksgiving holiday.

Never forget.

Say Thanks.

Thanks...If you’re reading this post you probably have a job that’s connected to digital marketing and advertising.  And whether your company had a wonderful year or a terrible one, whether you’re the right or wrong side of the best new technology, statistically you are very lucky.  You’re in an industry that’s still growing and your skills will be in demand for a long time to come.  Relatively speaking, we are all lottery winners.

Thanksgiving week is as good a time as any for a reality check….to take stock of what we have and perhaps to make a deposit in the Karma bank.  You don’t have to act on what I’m proposing below, but I respectfully ask that you read and carefully consider it.

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Over the past 15 years our country has minted a lot of veterans, and a great many struggle physically, psychologically or both.  Thousands more have made the ultimate sacrifice.  Connected to almost all of these stories are a families with day-to-day needs…families that fall through the safety net every day.

When the safety net breaks, the TD Foundation helps these families.  No bureaucracy, no delay, just help.  Fast.  Whether it’s a car payment or rent situation that now seems hopeless; money to keep a child playing soccer or basketball for another season;  funds to acquire a handicap-accessible van; or just about anything else.  It’s not always dramatic, but it’s always crucial.  It’s life.

So if you feel lucky – as I do – here are three things you can do.

  • If you’re in the New York area – or can be – next Thursday night December 1st, buy a ticket for $150 to the annual TD Foundation fundraiser in Manhattan. Besides helping the families of wounded warriors and fallen heroes, you’ll spend the evening with scores of great digital industry people.
  • Make a donation – of any size – to the Foundation.
  • Forward this post on to a friend.

I’m grateful to have all of you as readers, customers and friends.  You are the blessings I count.  And thank you for considering this great cause.  Happy Thanksgiving.

Six Questions for Tom Deierlein.

Six Questions for Tom Deierlein Nine years ago today, Captain Tom Deierlein was shot by a sniper in a Baghdad slum. His life since that day has been a remarkable story of service, leadership and transformation.Tom will speak at next month’s Seller Forum about creating your own personal leadership philosophy.

1. You think it’s important not just to believe in a leadership philosophy but to actually write it down.  Why?

People have in their heads how they want to lead but articulating this is tricky.  When you write it down on a page or two, it causes you to really, really think through how you want to lead…to think through values, priorities, and expectations. It immediately leads to a healthy discussion about how best to work together and — critically — in times of crisis it will guide your actions.

2. You’ve been in leadership positions in both the internet ad/tech world and the military.  Is there a common thread for great leadership?

I think that leadership is leadership.  I find myself guided by the 11 principles I was taught 30 years ago when I was a 17-year-old cadet.  It might be a high school student athlete who is captain of her soccer team, a Marine leading a team in combat, or a first time manager at an ad agency. The principles are the same.  I feel it breaks down into three major areas:

  1. Values and character:  People want a leader they trust and who makes the right choices regardless of consequences.
  2. Concern for your people: Genuine concern and desire to help them be their absolute best personally and professionally.
  3. Decisions:   Willingness to make decisions –including the hard ones — and be held accountable for them.

Technically there is a fourth:  Results.  Without success the other three don’t matter.

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3. Can you give a short statement that tells us the difference between leadership and management?

I guess I’m one of those people who believe management is about things (process, operations, technology) and leadership is about people.

4. They say that adversity doesn’t build character, but rather reveals it.  You were shot by a sniper in Sadr City, Iraq in 2006 and spent most of a year recovering and rebuilding at Walter Reed.  What did that experience reveal to you about Tom Deierlein?

I spent 8 months in the hospital first in recovery and then rehab.  That gave me a lot of time for reflection and self-analysis. Not that I was an ogre before, but I decided to be a better person.  I decided to be more selfless and help others. To slow down and enjoy life more – let fewer things bother me.  As a joke, I call this ‘Tom 2.0.’ Whenever I slip back into undesired behaviors or attitudes I call it ‘Tom 1.0 creeping back in.’

5. Through the TD Foundation, you’ve made your story about more than your own struggles and successes.  You’ve tapped into something bigger and more important.  That seems like a good leadership lesson right there, doesn’t it?

Whenever you talk to anyone about charity and helping others I think you find they get as much out of it as those they help.  It is like fuel for the soul.  People that help others are actually happier in general.

6. Someone reading this post is struggling to unite their team and get them to perform at a whole new level.  What one piece of advice do you offer?

I just finished a great book on this topic called “The Five Dysfunctions of a Team.”  But if I were to give one piece of advice it would be to set shared goals, communicate those goals, and then publicly reward behaviors that demonstrate teamwork and cooperation to get these goals accomplished.


ServiceToday is veteran’s day and we’re using The Drift to send a message that is at once both personal and universal.  The nature of military service in our country today means that the vast majority of us and our children will spend our lives never picking up a rifle or serving on the deck of a warship.  Today is about those who have, who do and who will in the future.

I have a nephew  currently serving a tour of duty in Afghanistan, after having already served in Iraq.  I would want for Scott what we should want for all our veterans: to have our society and government equip them for life as vigorously fully as we equip them in the field.  Unfortunately — and this is not political — we are still better as a country at sending people to war than we are in bringing them home.  What the VA and other government agencies can’t accomplish is left to us.

Which brings me to a friend and a cause that I hold dear.  Tom Deierlein was an industry friend and colleague before I ever knew he had a connection to the military.  In a chain of events familiar to those of us who know Tom, he was called back to the military in 2006 to serve as a civilian affairs officer in Sadr City, a Shiite slum in Baghdad.  Immediately he began collecting toys, school supplies, vitamins…anything that would make the lives of suffering Iraqi children and families more tolerable and hopeful.  Short time later, Tom was shot by a sniper, spent most of a year in Walter Reed Army Hospital, learned to walk again, and never looked away from the mission for a second.

The TD Foundation now helps not only Iraqi and Afghan children — supporting girls schools threatened by the Taliban, purchasing prosthetic limbs, arranging transportation for lifesaving surgery — but has now expanded its mission to helping the families of wounded warriors back here in the United States.  Recently, Tom shared with many of us the plight of a seriously disabled vet and his family:  Forced into becoming a nearly full-time caregiver, the soldier’s wife was unable to work. Bills came due, the family car fell into disrepair.  Even the purchase of a medically prescribed bed for her veteran couldn’t be made.  Learning of the situation, Tom was able to simply write a check to make all of this go away.  No bureaucracy, no overhead, no celebrity-filled fundraisers.  Just help.

Knowing what our service members give, I will never feel like I can ever have ‘done my share.’  But I can do something today and so can you.  Make a donation right now.  Even ten bucks…anything.  Then forward this post — or tweet the hell out of it.  Then write me back or post a comment.  Let’s make noise and put a lot more money into the TD Foundation so that Tom can write a lot more checks.

And you don’t even have to dump a bucket of ice water on your head.