Being Curious.

by Doug Weaver on February 14, 2013 at 8:07AM

Being CuriousDigital media and technology sellers — and, for that matter, most people who sell anything — make it harder on themselves than it needs to be.  We weigh ourselves down with elaborate demonstrations, mountains of statistics and detailed battle plans for how we’ll emerge victorious from the next sales call.  We then plug all this into a PowerPoint — “the deck” — and rest our hopes and dreams on our ability to blow them away with a truly awesome presentation.

But unfortunately sales is not performance art. And a great many promising sales opportunities never come to fruition because of the bad assumptions we make in preparing for them.  Too much of our advance work ends up having little effect, and some even works against us.

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Let’s start with the assumption that you need to “present” at all.  Sales leaders and training managers spend millions every year hiring coaches who promise to improve their sellers’  ability to ‘stand and deliver.’   But in reality, the percentage of the population who can ever stand up in front of a room full of strangers and actually change an outcome is infinitesimally small….way below zero.   As Jerry Seinfeld observed, “statistically the number one fear humans have is public speaking.  Number two is death.  So if you’re at a funeral, odds are you’d rather be in the box than delivering the eulogy.”  Yet inertia, nostalgia and an outdated image of the seller as some sort of gladiator figure keeps us going back to the presentation.
Here’s an alternative.  Focus instead on fostering one simple quality within your sales team:  curiosity.  While almost no one can “present a customer into buying,”  virtually everyone can improve sales outcomes through genuine curiosity.  And to be perfectly clear, I’m not suggesting they act curious; I want them to actually be curious.  Those who truly want to know and understand more about their client’s businesses and challenges are the ones who end up succeeding.  Their natural curiosity makes their customers feel respected and interesting.  It breaks down the artificial role barriers between buyer and seller.  It opens doors and it opens minds.
Curiosity is to the success of a sales team what defense is to the success of a basketball team.  It’s not some rare gift that only a tiny percentage of virtuoso performers can display.  It’s something that every member of the team can get better at and put to work every single game.  And being curious — like playing good defense — is just a matter of desire, discipline and will.  So put away your slides.  Stop trying to be interesting.  And start being interested.

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  1. Art Miller February 14, 2013 at 10:46 am

    A most useful insight for salespeople is James Thurber’s comment, “It is better to know some of the questions than all of the answers.”

  2. Mark McLaughlin February 14, 2013 at 11:16 am

    I am not a natural born sales person but my skills improved dramatically when Charlie Thomas taught me these five words…

    “How can I help you?”

  3. David Elkins February 14, 2013 at 12:36 pm

    Essential reading.

  4. Tom Troland February 14, 2013 at 2:23 pm

    Curiosity. Theodore Levitt said years ago that the question that matters most in sales is “What’s new?” Absolutely true. Great column, Doug!

  5. Jacki Kelley February 18, 2013 at 9:44 am

    Could not agree more Doug. I would love to have truly curious sellers across the table asking questions and aiming to help drive performance for our clients — and by virtue of that, for their brand. At UM our tagline is Curiousity Works so we are already fully committed to the skil. Nothing beats it and it will be a differentiator as far to few display it consistently. And I too learned a lot from Charlie Thomas and Mark McLaughlin

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